We are back from our trip to the Lillooet area. It is about a 3.5 hours drive west of here. On Sunday we went to the Christian Native Fellowship and were overjoyed to see a young couple and their four kids there. The young man had participated in the kids outreach we did that summer 13 years ago. And the young mom remembered us from Bush Camp. She recognized herself in the pictures as we looked through the photo album of our summer missions experience. It was fun to recall the memories as we talked. He shared how he had been involved with alcohol and drugs over the years, and how it affected his relationship with his family. He realized that he needed to change and just a few months ago decided to turn his life over to Jesus. What a wonderful transformation has taken place in this family's life. Pray for this young couple and their four young children (God knows who they are) as they feel quite alone as Christians on the small reserve where they live. Many of the community, especially their peers, are trying to lure them back into their old lifestyle. It is a battle that we continue to see around us. "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." (1 Peter 5:8)
| one of the elders working on the native flute |
| one of the young gals who attended our kids outreach 13 years ago |
| our truck camper |
The weather was quite hot and we decided to head to the Pavilion reserve for the night, since we remembered that it usually was much cooler there. So many memories flooded our minds as we drove onto the reserve. We parked at the fire hall. It was the same building where we lived for a summer with 3 of our 4 kids, who were teenagers at the time. The maintenance guy we met that summer came to open up the hall, so we would have access to the bathroom. The next morning Howard busied himself to get ready for the flute making workshop with two of the band members. It was a wonderful time of re-connecting with old friends. We sat around and talked and listened to stories as they were making their flutes. As I stopped by one of the homes to visit, I was greeted with big long hugs from the two women who were there. “We were just talking about you last week!” they both said. How interesting, since they didn’t know we were coming. There has been a lot of turmoil on this reserve in the last years, and it has affected many of the families. Pray for a revival in these communities. The enemy has had a hold on this area for so long and we can see it in the brokenness in people’s lives.
| happy with the results after a two day workshop |
We got back on Wednesday late afternoon when we got the message on our voicemail that there was going to be a funeral the next day for a young woman who had died from a drug overdose. When we called, the parents asked if we could say some prayers with the family at the funeral.
Early the next day we met with the family. The young woman who died was only 35 years old. Her children were raised by her parents, since she was unable to do so herself due to the abuse of drugs and alcohol in her life. Last summer she tried to move back home and change her life, but she would often go back to the big city and be drawn back into the drugs again. Her father said that this last time that she left for the city, he somehow knew that she probably would return in a pine box. He said, “Talking to her about the drug abuse was like talking to that telephone pole” as he pointed out his window. She was his baby girl and he was broken and angry at the same time. Angry at the grip these drugs had on her on so many other people. Angry at those who sell the drugs to young kids. He then asked if Howard would share about the dangers of drugs in his talk at the funeral. We then realized that they were asking us to officiate and help lead the service. We had about a half an hour to put together a message and some songs that we would share. God gave the grace and peace needed to manoeuvre through some stressful and difficult family dynamics as people gathered to say their last goodbyes. Several people shared briefly about her life and offer words of condolences to family and friends. The casket was removed for cremation and family and friends gathered to share a meal. As usual there was lots of food, and more kept coming throughout the meal. All were invited to come back in the morning to the graveyard to bury her ashes. We were pretty tired at the end of that long intense day.
The next morning we arrived early at the house, but the truck was gone. Afraid that we may have missed them we walked in the house we noticed that the parents had gone, but everyone else was still asleep. A young man who had tended the fire all night was sound asleep on the couch oblivious to our presence the TV that was still on. About 10 minutes later the parents arrived. They had to take care of some things in town. We chatted briefly and they asked us to meet them at the cemetery a little later. Another car arrived about the same time we did at the cemetery. We found the spot where they wanted to bury the ashes. It was right on her mother’s grave. I noticed that the mother was only 40 when she died. The gravesite needed more dirt in order to bury the ashes, so someone brought a wheelbarrow and a couple of shovels and the few of us who were there helped to get the site ready. It was hot in the sun and the mosquitoes were plentiful. Little by little more people showed and then the dad spoke briefly and asked Howard to pray while they buried her ashes. A chief spoke on behalf of the band and then people said their last goodbyes and went on their way home.
We were exhausted when we got home and were glad for a little time of peace and quiet.